MERRY CHRISTMAS

December 25, 2016 Jaybee 0 Comments


We wish you a Merry Christmas
We wish you a Merry Christmas
We wish you a Merry Christmas…
…And a Happy New Year

Good tidings we bring
To you and your kin
We wish you a Merry Christmas…

…And a happy New Year

Merry Christmas everyone. May the peace and joy 
that comes with the season continue to abide with
you and your entire family today and forever.

May it be, that this season brings with it 
a soothing relief from all the stress, hustle and 
bustle of the year and may you find uncountable
reasons to laugh and be joyful this season.

Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year ahead.

Cheers!




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WDYT - DO I ACCEPT OR REJECT THE OFFER?

December 09, 2016 Jaybee 0 Comments

Hello Guys

How has the week been?

Today is Friday (TGIF) and it means it’s another time to put up the next in line of the WDYT stories that we have lined up. Thanks to everyone who hasn’t been stingy with their opinions and have always dropped them on previous editions. You guys are the real MVPs.

Without much delay, let’s help someone make an important life decision on today’s WDYT. Shall we?

DO I ACCEPT OR REJECT THE OFFER?

Hello Sir,
My name is Emmanuel and I’m a follower of your blog. I must say big ups with the posts and all. I won’t take much of your time and that of your readers, as my case isn’t the relationship spider web-ish, love triangle whatever. Although to some extent, my case is somewhat similar.

So, I quit my job in August and I’ve been searching for a job since. I’m a married man and I have two kids (a boy and a girl). The thing is, late last month, I got an invite for an interview in a well-known company in the south-south region of the country. I went and came back, absolutely praying for it to go through. I got another invite from a not-so-well-known firm in Abuja, where I stay with my family.

I went for the interview and before the end of the same week, I got a mail requesting that I come for a meeting with the MD. An inside source has told me that if I get a mail requesting that I come for a meeting, then I’ve been selected. I went for the meeting and a resumption date was fixed for 5th of next month.

I was so happy until I got a mail from the south-south company also, that I’ve been asked to resume official duties, anytime I want, between when the mail is received and 20th of next month.
Now, here’s the twist – The firm here in Abj, has an interesting salary, very okay for a family man, and that’s just about it. There is the chance for career and personal development but there isn’t any immediate incentives.

The south-south company really has me feeling like a king already. The salary is twice and a little more than the local offer, I’ll resume with an official car, an official driver, accommodation, wardrobe allowance and travel incentive.

Before any of your readers start to wonder if I’m crazy for even asking this question, here’s the thing. Accepting the Abj offer, allows me time with my family while the south-south offer would see me gone for at least four months. Even if I relocate with my family, I still won’t see them (I know some people already know the job I’m referring to). I grew up with an absentee father and I don’t want my kids to the slightest feeling of that experience.

The economy is not smiling and it’s making me seriously consider the south-south offer and the local offer is just too basic. In fact, the salary is just 10k more than the job I quit in August. The first time I asked my wife, she said I should drop the south-south offer. Two days later, she said I MUST take it up.

Why did she change her mind? She said she gave it a deeper thought. I’m a really confused guy here. So, do you think I should take the offer from the local firm and live comfortably with my family, or do I join the south-south company, and say hello to the ‘rich life’ but accept that I’ll only be seeing my family thrice in a year (the thought alone strikes fear in my heart).

What do you think?


Thank you.





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IDEAS ARE LIKE AIRPLANES

December 05, 2016 Jaybee 0 Comments


I just finished a business negotiation with a guy in Italy; he stays in Italy but he’s Nigerian. I feel gloomy. Reason is because the negotiation hit the rocks. We couldn’t reach a middle ground and the price he was asking me to pay to buy “My” website was just too ridiculous. Even if I had the money, I’ll think twice before buying the website at that price – but I don’t even have it!

Yes, I know you saw it – I said “My” website. Now, you’re probably wondering, “How come someone is selling you what’s yours at a price you can’t afford?”  I’ll tell you how – I didn’t act fast enough. That’s how.

Sometime ago, I had an idea for a service website and I discussed it with a friend who told me it was a brilliant idea. But we need to execute it quickly if we’re really serious about it. ‘Busy me’ kept on dragging it and dragging it, until I was finally reading to execute (at my convenience).

I called my friend, told him it’s time to LAUNCH!... we began doing the groundwork, collected a few information (content), and was ready to kick off the second phase of the project – Web Design. I preferred (against instruction) to gather the content of the site first before creating the site. (Shey me, I’m the content person na. Content gang, clap for yourself).

The minute we tried buying the domain name, which is what web developers do before proceeding with web design, I realized that the name in my mind, which was the ‘perfect perfecto’ for the site had already been taken. “How?” was the first question I asked myself probably because I had thought the name was unique to me. Then I decided to look up the site.

As a matter of fact, the site didn’t look like much. Looked more of a website template than a website but the design was exactly what we wanted to do. My heart was beating fast. Hopefully the site didn’t belong to anyone and my ethical hacker friend can help out. Lo and behold!, he traced the ownership of the site to a guy in Italy.

I didn’t want to ask but I went ahead and asked (probably to rub salt on the wound) “How long has he parked the domain (it’s a technical web development term)”

“Just three months ago” my friend replied.

“Damnit!” I blurted on impulse “I had this same idea around four months ago” I explained, like that was going to automatically switch the ownership of the site. I rubbed my face with both my palms and decided I was going to buy the site from the guy. He ‘kuku’ wasn’t using it (yet).

Since then, it’s been on and off phone conversations, how he still plans on using it later in future when he comes back to Nigeria, how he might just auction it and sell it to the highest bidder, he even had me give him a consultation session of the website’s potentials, especially when I realized there could be a chance for a partnership.

We’ve said our goodbyes and as I write this piece, I feel light and bright again. Why? Because it has been a good life lesson for me and I’ve seen the good in that experience.

Ideas can never be monopolized.

Once that idea hits your mind, believe it or not, it’s hitting the minds of several other people. It’s now left for the first to take ACTION. If you procrastinate like I did, you just might end up trying to buy your own idea… and heavens smile on you like it did me, you can’t even afford the price the faster person is calling.

Ideas are like airplanes, ask an aeronautical engineer what happens when an aircraft is left on the ground for too long. They are not cars, airplanes gain longevity when they are off the ground. So are ideas. It gets worse with ideas in the sense that, if you don’t kick that brilliant idea off the ground, someone else will jump in the pilot seat and leave you to pay for the flight (if you can afford it).


Give that idea a lift off!





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HAPPY NEW DECEMBER

December 01, 2016 Jaybee 0 Comments

Yaaay! You made it too!

Wow!… It’s really something. Isn’t it? This same year that had us shouting Happy New Year! a couple of months ago, has indeed right before our very eyes reached the last month. God is indeed faithful.

Hope it has been a very productive year? Cos for me, it has been full of testimonies. Well, I’m sure it has been the same for you too. Inarguably, a lot of retrospective thinking would be done (especially at the end of) this month.

Accounts would be balanced and meeting on how the year went (some call it “Progress Check”) would be held by corporate and private businesses (and individuals). While some look back at how the year went by and just keep celebrating, others look back and are not so happy.

The big question to you is this: When you look back on the decisions you made (or did not make) and the actions you took (or did not take) throughout the course of the year, how do you feel?
Cos whether you like it or not, our decisions and actions are what determines our results (thus far). 

I have made some fantastic decisions this year, just as I wish I could re-decide on some occassions; and it's probably the same for you too.

Bottomline, let us ensure we reflect, learn from our mistakes, and do some self appraisal and criticism. This would sure help us make better decisions in future. We should not also forget that decisions are nothing, if the necessary actions required to make the best of the opportunities that present itself to us are not taken.

May every good thing you are still hoping for be surprisingly delivered unto you this month.

As the year closes up shop, you, your family and loved ones would be shielded from all end-of-the-year perils.

May you be divinely connected with opportunities, people and scenarios that will project you ahead and give you a head start in 2017. 

And may you be able to recognize those opportunities when they come knocking.


Have a fantastic last of the 12; aka December.


Happy New Month.



God bless you. 




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