20 SIGNS YOU MIGHT BE A SEX ADDICT
Even before David Duchovny
played a sex addict in his hit show Californication (and then became one in
real life), we've been bombarded by cheating celebs swearing they're only
cheating because they're addicted to sex. Tiger Woods is only the half of it.
Experts are on the fence
about whether sex addiction is a real condition - but most agree that it is an
actual, if not a diagnosable, disorder (though it's not listed in the bible of
psychology, the DSM-IV).
So what are some of the symptoms?
Are you a sex addict? Is your partner a sex addict? Read on to learn more about
the signs of a true sex addiction.
1) Compulsively cheating on
a partner or spouse.
2) Engaging in multiple
extramarital affairs that have almost nothing to do with intimacy.
3) Masturbating excessively
and/or obsessively.
4) Getting involved in
unsafe sexual encounters despite knowing they're risky.
5) Compulsively engaging in
phone sex.
6) Making a habit of having
anonymous sexual partners.
7) Turning to prostitution
-- either soliciting sex from prostitutes or becoming a prostitute or escort.
8) Engaging in sexual
behaviors that interfere with other obligations like work, family life, and
school.
9) Trolling classified ads
online or in print for sex partners.
10) Getting irritable,
anxious, or angry without frequent sex.
11) Spending an inordinate
amount of time planning (often deviant) sex fantasies.
12) Feeling a great deal of
guilt and remorse after engaging in sexual behaviors.
13) Frequently arguing with
family and loved ones about the hypersexual behavior.
14) Engaging in unhealthy
or compulsive sexual behavior despite knowing the risks of physical harm to
self or others involved.
15) Repeatedly trying to
curb the sexual fantasies, urges, and behaviors without being able to.
16) Habitually having
one-night stands.
17) Knowingly compromising
personal relationships (including marriages) in order to fulfill sexual
fantasies and urges.
18) Performing sex acts
that tend to be precipitated by a depressed mood.
19) Engaging in
exhibitionism (a desire to expose parts of the body), in public.
20) Getting pleasure out of
voyeurism and frequently engaging in it.
If you recognize a good
number of these traits in yourself or your partner, seek out a therapist in
order to get some help. There's nothing to be scared or ashamed of.
Sexual addiction can be treated.
Culled from the huffington post
Mature Minds Talk.
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Hmmmm i must confess dat i am an addict 2sex a wik witout sex is like i will ferment like meat in alcohol. Did i say a wik?? I only refrain from sex when i go visit my parents from school n i don't stay long when i visit maybe 5days to a week n then i go back becos i can't imagine myself fucking in my fathers house
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