GIRLS NEED TO REALIZE
I really
don’t know why and how I came about this, but I must say some write-ups and articles
are quite honest, insightful, thought provoking and brutally honest. So if you kind
of prefer hiding behind a finger (precisely the middle finger), STOP RIGHT
HERE!... If not, read on. While strolling aimlessly around MMT Facebook page, www.facebook.com/maturemindstalk
i found a deep post. And well, I have to say it has definitely been all of the
before mentioned. Here’s what I found and I thought I'd share.
WRITTEN
BY A GUY : Girls need to realize:
We guys don't
care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other
guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room
and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it makes us
mad. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without
even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy
calls, or text you, but at 2 in the morning, we do get a little concerned. Nothing
is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning.
Also,
when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking
mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The
sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when
we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you!
don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you.
Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's
looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're
going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear
the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you
for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more
beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled
up.
Don't
take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty
in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop
using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't
talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened
to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful' i'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted
me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/cutie/sexy' or whatever else
you can think of. On the other hand I'm
not sayin
I wouldn't like it ether. Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't
being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry
butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with
utter respect Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile
when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make
mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes and say
'i love you' and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance.
Every Guy
who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read
this will comment on this. Life is too short to complain about everything that
comes your way so stop and smell the roses in life because you might never have
another time to take it, so take your time because they are all different in
every way, so take chances in life, if it doesn't work out then fine, there are
always more roses to smell.
Mature
Minds Talk
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